Hey, I’m Lauren.
I help single women break free from toxic dating cycles, so they can find the love they deserve.

Therapist, Dating Coach and Anxiously Attached Human.
Hi, I’m Lauren! I’m a licensed therapist and dating coach who’s passionate about helping women navigate the ups and downs of modern dating, heal from past relationships, and finally feel confident in choosing a love that feels safe and secure. I’ve been through my own struggles with dating, breaking patterns, dealing with anxious thoughts, and learning to trust myself…which is why I bring my real, authentic self into the work I do.
On my Instagram @datingwithlo, you’ll find me sharing relatable content about dating, relationships, and self-growth, with a mix of warm, no-nonsense advice and fun, everyday moments. Whether it’s posting a silly meme, opening up about my own love life, or sharing what I’ve learned as a therapist, my goal is to help you feel seen, supported, and inspired.
In my virtual private therapy practice, I specialize in helping women who are ready to break free from old patterns, build confidence, and finally feel at peace in their relationships. If you’re tired of feeling stuck, overthinking, or doubting your worth, I’m here to help you make real, lasting changes…and have a little fun along the way.
My Approach
In therapy with me, you’ll find a balance of empathy and directness. I believe in creating a supportive space where you feel seen, heard, and understood, but I’m also here to help you make real, tangible changes in your life. My approach is rooted in attachment theory, which means we’ll explore how your early relationships have shaped your current patterns in love, connection, and self-worth. Together, we’ll identify the behaviors and thoughts that may no longer serve you and work towards shifting them.
I craft a personalized plan tailored to your unique experiences and goals, blending various therapeutic modalities to support your growth. I incorporate:
• Inner Child Healing: We’ll work on connecting with and nurturing the parts of you that were wounded in the past, which often influence your adult relationships.
• Restoration Therapy: This method helps identify and heal the pain cycles you find yourself in, allowing you to create more constructive ways to cope and communicate in relationships.
• Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT): We’ll tackle unhelpful thought patterns, shifting them into more positive, reality-based perspectives to reduce anxiety and self-doubt.
• Mindfulness Practices: These will ground you in the present, helping to reduce the mental noise of anxious thoughts and foster a deeper connection with yourself.
My therapeutic style isn’t just about talking—it’s about action. You’ll leave each session with practical tools and strategies to apply in your daily life, helping you break old patterns and create healthier, more fulfilling relationships. Whether you’re struggling with dating anxiety, attachment wounds, or self-esteem issues, we’ll work collaboratively to meet your goals and empower you to build the life and relationships you truly deserve.
What makes me unique as a therapist is my ability to blend warmth and humor with professionalism and insight, creating a space where tough love meets deep care. I’m not here to just listen; I’m here to help you transform. Let’s take this journey together, one step at a time, toward the love and life you’ve been longing for.
Why Virtual Therapy?
Why Virtual Therapy?
Online Therapy is MY FAVORITE!
No needing to schedule extra time for your commute
No need to change out of your pjs
Schedule your session during your lunch break or even take a session from your car
Services
Individual Therapy
Available to California residents
I take a holistic and trauma-informed approach to individual therapy, blending attachment theory with techniques like inner child work to help you heal deep emotional wounds. This work is especially for women struggling with anxiety, depression, or low self-worth. Whether you’re longing for love, working to create healthier relationships, or wanting to reconnect with your authentic self. Together, we’ll explore how your past experiences shape your present, rebuild your confidence, and help you create a life and relationships that feel meaningful and fulfilling.
1:1 Dating Coaching
Available worldwide
Dating coaching with a licensed therapist offers a unique opportunity to transform your love life with expert guidance. This process is for women who have already done the foundational trauma work and are ready to break free from toxic dating patterns. We’ll dive deep into understanding your attachment style, teach you how to date authentically, and provide actionable tools to achieve your goals. If you’re ready to take your dating life to the next level and find a love that feels secure and aligned, this is for you.
Group Coaching
Available worldwide
Experience the power of connection and shared growth in my small, intimate group coaching sessions. These groups of 5-6 women offer a safe, supportive space to dive into attachment wounds, learn evidence-based tools for dating, and share your journey with others who truly understand. Together, you’ll heal, grow, and feel validated as you work to transform your dating life. Group coaching is perfect for women who are ready to feel less alone and take meaningful steps forward with a community by their side.
What Coaching Clients are Saying
"I’m finally in a happy, healthy relationship. It feels wonderful to express my needs to someone and be validated in return. I am really so so grateful to you for all of the guidance you’ve given me and working with you was truly one of the most beneficial things for me"
Former Coaching Client
"I truly feel so SAFE and prioritized. He is such a great communicator and I am never second guessing or overthinking what he might be feeling. We moved in together a few months after our 1 year anniversary and I couldn’t be happier. Thank you so much for everything."
Shelby, Former Coaching Client
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FAQ
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Like most specialty providers, I do not participate in any insurance plans. Paying out-of-pocket is a great option for people who want maximum privacy, confidentiality, and flexibility.
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$225 for 50 minute Individual therapy session
$225 for 50 minute 1:1 Coaching
Group Coaching varies depending on group
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Absolutely! If you have a PPO plan you may be eligible to use out-of-network insurance benefits. Please note: Using out-of-network benefits means you will be responsible for paying for each session in full at time of appointment.
Good News: I work with Mentaya, a platform that helps clients get money back on out-of-network therapy sessions. If you have out-of-network benefits, Mentaya will file claims and handle the insurance paperwork to make sure you get reimbursed.
Note: Mentaya's goal is to save you time and money. It's completely optional, and as your therapist I do not benefit in any way from your participation.
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You can use the out-of-network reimbursement calculator to get an individualized estimate of what your costs will be using your out-of-network benefits!
If you have out-of-network benefits, they typically will reimburse you for 55-100% of the cost of each session.
If you’d like, I will submit claims to your insurance company on your behalf via Mentaya.
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I know it sounds intimidating, but your out-of-network benefits are usually pretty straightforward to use.
To make things even simpler for you, I’ve partnered with a company, Mentaya, who will submit your claims to your insurance company at no cost to you.
Should you decide to submit on your own, most insurance companies have you upload your monthly superbill online (it’ll be sent to you as needed per your request) and then they will mail you a check with your reimbursement.
It’s always a good idea to call the number on the back of your health insurance card listed under Member Services.
You can ask them the following questions:
• Do I have out-of-network outpatient mental health coverage? Am I able to use these benefits for telehealth?
• What is my out-of-network deductible?
• How much of my deductible has been met this year?
• Do I need a referral from an in-network provider to see someone out-of-network?
• What percentage of outpatient psychotherapy sessions are covered per session?
• How much will I be reimbursed for a 45 minute psychotherapy session (CPT code: 90834)?
• How do I submit claim forms for reimbursement?
• How long does it take for me to receive reimbursement?
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Yes, I reserve a limited number of sliding scale spots in my schedule. If you do not think you can afford my full fee, please don’t hesitate to contact me.
If I’m unable to offer you a sliding scale spot, I’d be happy to offer referrals to trusted clinicians in the area.
If you’re hoping to find an in-network provider, www.psychologytoday.com is a great resource.
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No. Unfortuantely, insurance companies do not reimburse for any coaching services.
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Under my therapy license I can only work with residents of California. You must live in the state I am licensed in for us to work together.
However, since most countries in the EU and the UK do not have strict regulations for clinical therapy, I am able to work with clients in many of these regions.
My coaching services can be provided worldwide.
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Before scheduling a therapy session, I do a free 15 minute intro call with all potential new clients. This gives us the chance to get to know each other. Here’s what you can expect:
• I’ll ask you about why you’re seeking therapy
• I’ll tell you a bit about myself and my approach as a therapist
• You can ask me any questions that I didn’t cover
• We’ll talk about rates, insurance, availability, etc.
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If we both feel like we’re a good fit after our intro call, we’ll book your first therapy session! I’ll send over a couple of quick forms to fill out before we get started and share a link for our video sessions that you’ll use each week. Simple, easy, and ready to go!
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As your therapist, I bring a collaborative, down-to-earth, and judgment-free approach to make starting therapy feel less intimidating.
In our first couple of sessions, I’ll ask questions to really understand your life story and what’s brought you here. Together, we’ll figure out what you want to get out of therapy and set goals that feel meaningful to you.
Our time together is a mix of processing, gaining fresh perspectives, challenging old patterns, and building practical tools to handle life’s challenges.
Therapy isn’t always easy…sometimes it’s tough, and sometimes we’ll laugh through the process, but every step is designed to help you grow into the person you want to be. I’m here to support you, cheer you on, and help you create the change you’re ready for.